Tell Us Exactly What You Need To Have An Orgasm

We want to hear from people of different ages, genders, and sexualities about how they finally got off.

Orgasms are great — when you can manage to have them.

But the truth is, orgasms can be really freaking elusive or are a lot harder for some people to have than others.

Which, frustrating as hell.

Not only do they not teach How To Get Off 101 in sex ed, but it can also take a lot of experimenting to find out exactly what your body responds to.

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It’s not like there’s a one-size-fits-all guide to orgasming. Some people require certain kinds of penetration, stimulation, the aid of toys, or some combo of a million factors.

So we want to know: What were you doing when you finally had your first noteworthy orgasm, either with yourself or a partner?

Tell us (in a few sentences to a paragraph) in the anonymous form or in the comments below and your answer could appear in an upcoming BuzzFeed Health post. Don’t be afraid to go into detail, get explicit, and have fun with it. Your response can be 100% anonymous!