Tell Us Exactly What You Need To Have An Orgasm April 2, 2017Viral We want to hear from people of different ages, genders, and sexualities about how they finally got off. Orgasms are great — when you can manage to have them. vevo.com / Via buzzfeed.com Share Pin But the truth is, orgasms can be really freaking elusive or are a lot harder for some people to have than others. Not only do they not teach How To Get Off 101 in sex ed, but it can also take a lot of experimenting to find out exactly what your body responds to. Comedy Central / Via bobbiesdraper.tumblr.com Share Pin It’s not like there’s a one-size-fits-all guide to orgasming. Some people require certain kinds of penetration, stimulation, the aid of toys, or some combo of a million factors. So we want to know: What were you doing when you finally had your first noteworthy orgasm, either with yourself or a partner?